Don't lend him ANYTHING else and change your passwords and pins. This man does not see you as a partnership. You will almost certainly find he'll shaft you for maintenance (very easy to hide income when you're self employed) I think you need to prepare yourself for single parenthood and probably a very short mat leave. Oh christ, you're not married? He's already financially abusing you, this isn't going to get better. Has anyone got any advice please or even any benefits help for myself I don’t know if I can afford to live off £152 a week, is there any other help I can have from the government? It’s probably hard because I live with him and he earns a good amount of money so that’s what they will look at. Not to mention we also have a dog which is a shar pei( a lot of health issues they can struggle with) and I am probably end up spending all of my savings anyway when something happens to her which of course wouldn’t think twice of doing but then me and my child are screwed. The only reason why I have ever told him about my savings was for somebody to feel proud of me. This money is meant to be based around my child. It got me to the point where I just want to spend all of my savings and tell him ‘got nothing sorry you need to start saving up’ but then I need to think of my child, I need to have some money for Christmas, If anything happens to my car and child is ill and needs to be rushed to the hospital etc I need some money to fix it. If I wasn’t having a baby I would not mind at all of course but it’s just the financial security that I do not feel.I am so scared and stressed and he knows that. He keeps saying we’re gonna be rich this and that, every week since July he’s been saying that on two weeks we will be rich and you won’t have to lend me money anymore, that’s been said since July, and he is still lending money off me.

I am due to go on maternity leave from October and I am absolutely dreading it as I don’t know what our financial situation will be like, he hasn’t proven to me that I can rely on him financially, and whenever I bring it up he tells me I don’t trust him, but it’s nothing to do with trust at all, I just need security for myself and my child.

He keeps saying he will be chipping in for the other bills as well, but how can I be sure?ĭo not get me wrong please, he does treat me to meals or pay for food shopping by himself sometimes, but after all of that he is broke again and asks me for money anyway. He also pays our rent which is £525 a month, and I pay everything else like gas electric, council tax, life insurances, water, broadband etc etc, which we all know I will be left with nothing by the end of the month after maternity pay kicks in. He gets paid around £1250 every two weeks, £200 his overdraft that he always finds himself in, over £100 for his car insurance, food shopping as well, petrol, his phone Bill like once a month, he says he needs to be paying off his work equipment also each month as he works for building sites and had a lot of equipment to buy back in May but I am not sure if he is actually paying it all back now or what’s happening, surely the payment would only be paid once a month, and he gets paid twice a month? He does not want to show his bank account to me as he says that as long as we can get by I don’t need to worry, I don’t think he spends his money on any pointless stuff as we are always together pretty much and I don’t see him buying new clothes or anything ever so I am very confused. Since May he has been borrowing money from me which it was fine at first as I didn’t mind helping out while he gets his career going, UNTIL he would pay back and then again lend half of that money from me, while being in his overdraft and not to mention he gets paid every two weeks, with me it takes me a month to get paid with my job. My partner has recently started being self employed( May time) he earns around 38K a year where I only earn about 19K per year.

I have always been managing my funds pretty well and since I rememebr I have always had some money put aside( savings) so if anything happens or if my car breaks, my main account funds finish, I at least can have my savings to help me manage by until I get paid again. I started working when I turned 14 years old to be able to afford my own luxury such as clothes, make up, etc etc. Long story short, I’ve never had a father who would buy me things when I was little, and my mum was not the richest either. I need some advice because it’s coming up to my maternity leave soon, and I feel stressed about money situation.

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